Pema Chödrön

Going to the Places that Scare You

Help those whom you think you cannot help. Awakening the bodhi heart.
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Length: 7 minutes

Working with Pain: Developing Inner Strength

Instead of asking ourselves 'how can i find peace and happiness?' we can ask ourselves 'can i touch the center of my sorrow? Can I sit with pain - mine and yours - without trying to fix it.
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Length: 5 minutes

View and Guided Practice of Tonglen

Tonglen gives us a method on how to relate with pain. How to open our heart and open our mind in the very situation where our hearts and minds habitually shut down. This is really the key.
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Length: 4 minutes

Bill Moyers & Pema Chödrön

An excellent video of Bill Moyers interviewing Pema Chödrön. Link to external website. About an hour long. More »

Acknowlege that you are hooked

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Cultivating Unconditional Friendliness to Oneself

So I teach about maitri a lot. In fact, sometimes I think it's the only thing I teach. I also teach about compassion a lot, but actually compassion is a form of maitri so this unconditional friendliness to oneself, it seems to be what most of us do not have. More »

Bodhichitta and Aspiration

Bodhichitta is essentially a quality of warmth, an experience of our connection with all beings and with all things. It's said traditionally that it's expressed as a wish or an aspiration, initially expressed as a strong longing or wish that nobody suffer... More »

Lojong - Mind Training

You have to start training your mind and heart to tap into the potential for compassion and love that is in any negative thought or positive thought that you might have. There has to be some kind of training that begins. More »

The Practice of Tonglen - Transforming Confusion into Wisdom

In order to have compassion for others, we have to have compassion for ourselves. In particular, to care about other people who are fearful, angry, jealous, overpowered by addictions of all kinds, arrogant, proud, miserly, selfish, mean —you name it— to have compassion and to care for these people, means not to run from the pain of finding these things in ourselves. More »

The Shenpa Syndrome - Learning to Stay

This is a teaching on a Tibetan word: shenpa. The usual translation of the word shenpa is attachment. Here is an everyday example of shenpa. Somebody says a mean word to you and then something in you tightens— that's the shenpa. More »

Start Where You Are - When the Going Gets Rough

The most straightforward advice on how to discover your true nature is this: practice not causing harm to anyone – neither yourself nor others – and every day, do what you can to help. More »

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